There is a quote from a book that I re-read recently
--- Eleven Minutes by Paulo Coelho.
"I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It's all a question of how I view my life."
I totally agree w/ it, dun you?!
I always think that how you treat yourselves is just depends on your choice, no matter happiness/ sadness, it's not a new topic.
you can use this attitude to due w/ everything happened in your life...
So, if you still choose to suffer for your "unsuccessful" love affair...
oh is ok ...
but ...
I just feel so sorry about you...and your OWN life...
waves
Dear Pizzaq ,
Had it been so easy to control mind , the world would have a better place.